Wednesday, May 28, 2014

Wednesday, April 23, 2014

Coming soon: "A Person's True Vocation"

Every now and then, particularly in the absence of any responses, I ask myself: why blog?

Tuesday, April 22, 2014

The Fallacy of Work-Life Balance

I believe the contemporary term of "work-life balance" must be first coined from somewhere with a backdrop of mature economic development and liberal socialism, where most people have strong enough consumption power that they become particular with the quality of their leisure time.

Wednesday, March 12, 2014

Coping with Paradoxes: be water, my friend

This is just my 2 cents' worth of sharing: coping with paradoxes.

Actually working in mainland China can be a very useful learning experience.

Monday, February 10, 2014

To Shape and be Shaped

I still vividly remember how I got told off, perhaps some 40 years ago, at the doctor's office in his clinic. I was having a flu or sore throat or something like that, certainly nothing life threatening, as I was a little energetic upon sitting next to his desk facing him at an angle, while my mum was sitting (or standing) next to me. Before the doctor spoke, I was looking at his stuff inside an stationery tray on the desk, spontaneously took out a cheap ball pen and made some unimportant remark about it, only to be instantly told off by mum for being impolite and naughty, and asked to leave it where it belonged.

Monday, January 20, 2014


The latest news on how a 23 years old Indonesian domestic helper was suspected to have been severely ill-treated by her ex-employer in Hong Kong to such dilapidated form beyond recognition were, to say the very least, disheartening and repugnant. Our fragrant harbour was even shamefully indicted as a hell for "modern-day slaves". The headlines could well be just the tip of an ice-berg, as domestic exploitation and torture could indeed be more commonplace than are readily imaginable by anyone.

For the sake of humanity, it is worth anyone who feel disturbed to ponder on the psychic of the perpetrators, to pinpoint the source of cruelty and, hopefully, exercise self-audit and control against any possible vicious pitfalls in our otherwise daily routine life.

I suspect the misdeeds of abusing domestic helpers can be traced to the following psychopathic faults: